Farm Table Talk: Bless Your Heart – Let’s Have a Real Talk

Alright, pull up a chair and grab your favorite mug, because we’re about to have a no-holds-barred discussion around the farm table. I’ve noticed a trend in some of the comments I receive, and it’s time to address them head-on with all the southern charm they deserve.

The Planet’s Predicament

Let’s talk about the world we live in. Yes, it’s a mess. The planet is dealing with issues like global warming, contamination, and a whole lot of other challenges. It’s easy to feel overwhelmed and think “we’re doomed.” But throwing our hands up in despair isn’t exactly a productive solution. Maybe, just maybe, we should focus on finding ways to reduce our impact and clean up the mess we’ve made. There’s a lot of work to be done, and it’s going to take a collective effort. From reducing plastic use to supporting renewable energy, every little bit helps.

Or we could just sit around and wallow in our perceived karma. Your call. But let’s be real here—choosing the latter doesn’t solve anything. It’s the easy way out, and quite frankly, it’s a bit of a cop-out. So, while some are busy declaring that we’re all doomed, the rest of us will be over here rolling up our sleeves and getting to work. Because the future isn’t written in stone; it’s shaped by what we do today.

Pointing Fingers at the Past

It’s also quite fascinating how some folks love to blame historical figures for all our problems. Sure, it’s easier to find a scapegoat than to acknowledge the multifaceted nature of societal change. Blaming a single person or era might make for a convenient narrative, but it does little to address the complexities of the issues we face.

Take, for example, the idea that “The American dream died when Reagan took office.” While it’s tempting to pin the blame on one administration, the reality is that socio-economic shifts are influenced by a myriad of factors, including global markets, technological advancements, and cultural changes. It’s not as simple as pointing a finger at one president and calling it a day.

By oversimplifying the issue, we miss out on understanding the deeper, systemic causes of our current challenges. It’s like blaming the last piece of a puzzle for the entire picture—ignoring all the pieces that came before it. Real progress requires us to look at the bigger picture and understand how various elements interact over time.

Furthermore, placing all the blame on historical figures absolves us of our responsibility to effect change. It’s a way of saying, “It’s their fault, so there’s nothing we can do.” But that’s not true. We have the power to shape our future by learning from the past, making informed decisions, and taking action in the present. Dwelling on past grievances without addressing the underlying issues is like trying to fix a leaky faucet by blaming the plumber who installed it decades ago—it’s not going to solve the problem.

Rethinking Education

And then there’s the school system. Yes, it has produced a productive and innovative workforce, but that doesn’t mean it’s perfect or beyond critique. Our education system has certainly had its successes, but pointing out flaws and areas for improvement doesn’t negate those past achievements. It’s called progress. Look it up.

The world has changed dramatically since the days when our current education model was established. We now live in a world that requires different skills and knowledge. So, while the system has worked well in the past, it’s facing new challenges that need to be addressed. If we don’t adapt and evolve, we risk falling behind.

One alternative that more and more parents are considering is homeschooling. With homeschooling, parents have the flexibility to tailor the curriculum to their child’s unique needs, interests, and learning pace. It allows for a more individualized approach to education, one that can foster creativity, critical thinking, and a love for learning. Homeschooling can also provide a safe and supportive environment, free from the pressures and distractions of traditional school settings.

Of course, homeschooling isn’t a one-size-fits-all solution, and it comes with its own set of challenges. Not all parents have the time, resources, or expertise to take on the role of educator. And socialization, one of the key benefits of a traditional school, can be more difficult to facilitate. But for many families, the benefits outweigh the drawbacks, and it’s a viable alternative to consider.

It’s not about tearing down the public school system but recognizing that there are multiple paths to a quality education. By being open to different educational models, whether it’s homeschooling, charter schools, or public schools, we can ensure that all children have access to the education that best suits their needs.

Addressing the Writing Critique

Now, let me address the snark about my ability to write a lot of words without making a coherent point. Oh, bless your heart. It’s always nice to receive backhanded compliments. My skill lies in making people think, which, judging by some comments, seems to be working. Coherent points are often lost on those who aren’t willing to engage with the content. And to answer the question about my PhD—well, it’s in challenging the status quo. It’s about pushing boundaries, asking difficult questions, and encouraging others to look beyond their comfort zones. But thanks for the applause; it’s always appreciated.

I fully recognize that some people are as immovable as a mule in a mud pit when it comes to changing their minds. But for every sour, close-minded soul out there, there’s a whole bunch more who are open-hearted, curious, and ready for progress. The naysayers might never get it, but there’s always hope that someone teetering on the edge of change might catch on. Just like the earth’s latent seed bank, our thoughts and experiences either plant new seeds or water dormant ones, causing them to sprout when the conditions are right. And hey, even if I don’t convert the die-hard cynics, maybe I’ll plant a little seed of thought in someone who’s ready to think differently.

The seed of our words produces a harvest, good or bad. I’m hoping my articles will be like those latent seeds. When they hit a fertile mind ready to receive them, they’ll sprout right away. When they land somewhere that still needs some work, they go dormant until the right conditions are met. That’s how change happens—one seed at a time.

And as for my use of words like ‘folks,’ let me set the record straight. My daddy was from the south, and I lived in Oklahoma for a while. I picked up some of the accent, and I write the way I speak. It doesn’t mean that I’m redneck or of lower intelligence. I’m proud of my roots, and I have no intention of changing my speech patterns. Ever taken the time to get to know folks who talk like this? They’re often some of the wisest, most genuine people you’ll ever meet. Just because someone “cultured up” their speech doesn’t mean they’re intelligent. In fact, ‘folks’ is a more inclusive, gender-neutral term. So, keep flexing that keyboard courage. It’s entertaining, if nothing else.

I understand that we all come from our own perceptions and that those who lash out are often struggling with their own issues. Maybe it’s fear of change, maybe it’s anger at feeling helpless, or maybe they just plain don’t like being challenged to think outside the box because it’s uncomfortable. But I don’t take the snotty comments personally. I always try to reply to them in a loving way, because who knows what someone else is going through.

Why I’m Not Chasing Fame

Lastly, let’s clear the air about my intentions. I’m not here to become famous. Fame comes with its own set of headaches, like people who feel entitled to share their opinions on every aspect of your life. Oh wait… just like some of these commenters do. But it goes beyond that. Fame can attract stalkers who invade your privacy, and let’s not forget about the hate crimes. Just ask the Salatins, who had to endure the KKK burning a cross and hay bale on their driveway to “remind” them of their supposed status as communist spies. Fame isn’t all glitz and glamour—it’s often a magnet for the worst kinds of attention. So no, I’m not seeking fame; I’m seeking to help folks look at things differently. Sorry if that’s too lofty a goal for some to grasp.

I get it. Some folks think that having a voice means I’m seeking attention or trying to become a “famous folk.” Not at all. I’m just a woman trying to make the world a better place. It’s funny how some people equate having a platform with seeking fame. I’m here to spark meaningful conversations and maybe, just maybe, inspire a bit of change. But hey, thanks for the assumption. It’s always nice to know how deeply misunderstood I am.

So there you have it. Keep the comments coming if you must, but know this: your negativity isn’t going to dim my light or stop me from trying to make a difference. For everyone else—those who are open-minded and eager for change—let’s keep the conversation going and continue to make the world a better place, one post at a time.

Yours in making the world a better place,
Traci

Published by Traci Houston

Hi there! I’m Traci, the heart and hands behind Huckleberry Farms. As a regenerative farmer, mother, and advocate for sustainable living, I’m all about growing food that’s good for people and the planet. Every day on our farm, we’re exploring new ways to honor old traditions, care for our animals, and regenerate the land. You’ll often find me writing about our journey, sharing honest insights into the ups and downs of farm life, and hopefully sparking conversations that inspire us all to think a little deeper about the food we eat and the world we live in. Thanks for being part of our community—I’m so glad you’re here!

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